The Hand of Fate: All Thumbs or Not?

Good morrow, dear readers. I hope that October is treating you well.

As I’ve been reading lately – a Definite benefit to months of bedrest – I’ve been pondering coincidences. Amongst Janeites, some claim there is an inordinate number of them in Pride & Prejudice: Mr Collins’ connexion to Darcy through Lady Catherine de Bourgh; Wickam’s presence in Meryton; and ODG touring Pemberley when ODB arrives.

Large Paladian mansion with a lake and trees in the foreground.
Lyme Park, Cheshire, England,
Pemberley 1995 BBC Production

If I am stepping on anyone’s deeply held beliefs – or passionately written blogs – I apologise, but my experience has proven such coincidences Happen.

Readers from the Americas (North and South) are accustomed to great land areas, and it boggles our minds – how could there be this many interconnected individuals in the small town of Meryton? Some perspective: the island of Great Britain is 600.9 miles long from the tip of Scotland to the English Channel and is 300 miles at its widest point. Its area is 80,823 square miles, roughly the same size as Oregon (the US’s 12th largest state).

a chart defining the ranks of English Society in 1814, and listing the number of households and total family members in each rank

Another frequent criticism of Austen (I’m looking at you Charlotte Bronte) is that her novels only featured the gentry; the “3 or 4 families in a country village” she recommended as material to her niece Anna (9/1814). She never denied this and poetically described her work to her brother Edward, “The little bit (two inches wide) of ivory on which I work with so fine a brush as produces little effect after much labour.” (12/1816) Which means Jane Austen’s original characters were drawn from only 2.6% (350,000) of Great Britain’s population (12.6 million in 1813), sprinkled across 109,000 households.

Now consider Mr Collins’ connexion to Darcy. Hunsford is but 50 miles from Meryton (“good road”, according to Darcy), and a visit from the heir-presumptive to Longbourn to meet his cousins is not astounding. But those 50 miles is an 8-hour carriage ride, I hear some say. Allow me an example from real life: soon after my dh, nine children, and I moved from Central Florida, across two state lines, to a small town in the Southeastern US, we stopped at a business seeking directions. That gentleman was unable to assist because he was likewise a new resident. He moved the month before we did and had lived less than a mile down the same road from us in the suburbs of Orange County, Florida – a 760-mile,12-14 hour drive.

tinted line drawing of a black clad parson bowing low to a gentleman in evening-dress who is looking scornfully through a quizzing glass
CE Brock, 1895

Such coincidences happen in life, especially in context of that “little bit of ivory” and what we know of Jane Austen’s original characters. Lady Catherine de Bourgh likely would have counted a future estate owner as her vicar as quite a feather in her class-conscious cap. Likewise, it would be difficult to swing a Cheshire cat at a dinner party amongst the Regency Era gentry and upper echelon professionals and not hit someone related to, granted a living by, or a neighbour of the nobility. (Jane Austen’s mother – wife of a vicar – was the great-grandniece of the 1st Duke of Chandros.) Therefore, it does not stretch credulity for Mr Darcy to meet his aunt’s clergyman at a ball at Netherfield Park.

pen and ink drawing of a fashionable Regency gentlemen entering through a door with several men in Regimentals.
George Allen, 1894

What about Wickham – Darcy knew him before Meryton. Several years after our initial move, we were living a different town, and my third child had a good friend. When I met the latter’s dad, I thought he looked familiar but couldn’t place him. In conversation, I learned the father had been the manager of my favourite grocery store in Central Florida. We had met several times over the years, when I would line up my ever-growing gaggle of children for our weekly grocery shopping. It becomes, therefore, unsurprising that, in P&P, Lt Denny recruits Wickham for the militia when in London – 25 miles from Meryton. Given Wickam’s character, post the foiled elopement with Miss Darcy, he likely was pressed for cash and had creditors after him; thus, an escape as a militiaman in a small town would have its appeal (most probably as a substitute for a land owning resident of whichever shire the militia was from). Likewise, it is evident from their initial meeting on the high street of Meryton, and again his questions to Lizzy at the Phillips’, Wickham had no clue that Darcy was in the area.

Okay, but what about Pemberley? Have you never bumped into an acquaintance at some tourist attraction or convention? It’s happened in my family more times than I can readily count. Touring grand homes when on a road trip was commonplace back then, and would not you – if you had heard much about the beauty and grandeur of an acquaintance’s home – be even more curious to see it? And ODG did ensure that Darcy was not in residence before she left Lambton. How can it be shocking that Darcy arrives at his own house – especially with the valid excuse of attending to business with his steward (and avoid Miss Bingley’s cloying manners)?

line drawing of two adults in travel clothes looking affectionately as two young ladies give kisses to four children also in travel clothes
Hugh Thomson, 1895

Though I have just countered many of the coincidences in Pride & Prejudice, there is one I agree is far-fetched and, quite frankly, unnecessary: Mrs Gardiner’s connexion to Lambton. Given that she is unacquainted with both Darcy and Wickham, this does not forward the plot. Furthermore, the Peak District and great houses in Derbyshire are enough of an excuse to place Lizzy and the Gardiners in the area when Darcy arrives at Pemberley.  

So what is you opinion, dear readers? Are there too many coincidences or are they each believable?

4 responses to “The Hand of Fate: All Thumbs or Not?”

  1. Glynis Avatar
    Glynis

    I do think they are totally believable! (Ok so I am possibly a little gullible but…..) I went on honeymoon to Minorca and met the owners of the corner shop where I grew up at the airport. My parents went to London and found a couple they knew in the same hotel and my daughter went on holiday to Zakinthos and met her school art teacher to name just a few. I can even believe that Mrs Gardiner did come from Lambton!

  2. cindie snyder Avatar
    cindie snyder

    I think they are believable too! It is a small world and you never know who you will run into where!lol It is amazing!

  3. Linda A. Avatar
    Linda A.

    I think they are believable. I went to Germany years ago and met siblings from Florida. In the next year of college in the US, I met a girl from Germany through my sister. About 6 months later, I met some guys from an Ag school in Ecuador finishing their degree at my school. One of them was the cousin of the FL siblings whose father ran the Ecuador school. THEN, I saw some pictures one of the guys had, and the German girl was in them. She had gone to Ecuador (where the guys had met her) before coming to my school where she met my sister. Later, the guy from Florida ended up going to my school, too. Small world.

  4. hollise57c8b9f739 Avatar
    hollise57c8b9f739

    I don’t think so. When you explained how “small” England is, it is not so surprising. Two coincidences: my sister and I were touring the cathedral in Rome with acquaintances from Georgia, they came across two people from their small town. Another is my husband and I were in Denver CO at the Brown Hotel (a very fancy one) and the oil exec we were dining with, in conversing discovered that his wife’s mother’s very close friend was the roommate of my grandmother in the resthome in Dublin TX. The world is a very small place.

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