The Bygone Art of Letter Writing

My dearest friend, who has been at my side for over thirty years, would tell you that this blog was only a matter of time coming. I have spent countless hours writing her letters, at times filling notebooks. From when I was stationed overseas and she was in college, her housemates likely rolled their eyes at the hundreds of letters she received from me while I trekked across the world. I am confident I had a hand in keeping the USPS afloat. Then came the email, which meant I saved coin on postage, but it also meant that, but for the rare occasion, the art of putting pen to paper was set aside until I decided to write my first novel. I began the same way I started each story I wanted to share with her. I cannot believe I am the only one who laments the days when hours were lost thinking of those dearest to you and the pleasure of getting a letter in return, of knowing that you were equally esteemed. I dove into this topic with great anticipation, excited to learn about the tools involved but of a writer’s considerations.

A crossed letter written by Mrs. F. L. Bridgeman to Fanny West, December 15, 1837. Public Domain, via Wikipedia

First, the paper. Does the letter’s author need 16 1/2 inches by 13 1/4 inches? Or could it be trimmed? It was important that no paper be wasted, so the author sitting down to write may pick from pieces trimmed from other letters or cut off some of the sheet they intended to use. But to use the whole sheet you chose, no matter the size, was equally important. If that meant crossing lines, circling words around other paragraphs, or more inventive ways, it was employed by those authors of letters during the Regency, times before it, and those that came after.

English: Three goose feathers in stages of being made into writing quills. Top: unmodified. Middle: polished. Bottom: cut and shaped. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Then was the question of pencil or quill. If one chose the quill, it could not be any feather from any bird. The best quills came from the primary flight feathers of living birds. Further, left wings were a better-curved fit for the majority of the right-handed population. Conversely, right-wing feathers were better suited to those of the left-handed writers. Additionally, the quills from different birds proved different thicknesses in letter writing. Swan feathers produced thick-stroked letters, crow feathers produced thin ones, while goose feathers were the most popular.

The most commonly used ink for letter writing was made from oak galls, iron sulfate, and acacia gum. I have also come to understand that there was an equally great art of writing a letter without having a hand stained by ink by the end of it. It was not easily cleaned if spilled, nor was it easy to clean out of one’s garments. Once the letter was written, sand or a fine powder was used to dry the ink.

Folding the letter was important so no one could read any private information within. And sealing the letter, red wax being the most common, was necessary to prove the letter was unopened to the recipient.

But the most beautiful part of the letter was the addressing of the letter, being either respectful or a salutation of endearment. Each sentence required thought and consideration before it was written. It was not unheard of for people to draft the letter they intended on cheaper paper before using a more expensive sheet.

The one thing my dearest friend is ever grateful for is that the sender now pays for postage. During the Regency, the cost of a letter sent varied due to the distance it needed to be carried, the weight, and whether it was paid for on dispatch or by the recipient. Letters cost double if there were two sheets. I blush as I consider what my letters would have cost when there were ten sheets together! But it was a lovely art, and the letter received was a treasure gifted by the sender. It is also one that has been, unfortunately, lost to technology.

Sources for The Bygone Art of Letter Writing:

Grace, Maria “A Touch of Quill and Ink: Regency Letter Writing” Random Bits of Fascination October 7, 2014, A Touch of Quill and Ink: Regency Letter Writing – Random Bits of Fascination

Monajem, Barbara “Letter Writing of the Regency Era” Caroline Warfield’s Blog April 30, 2020, Letter Writing in the Regency Era – Highlighting History (carolinewarfield.com)

Author Unknown “Regency Culture and Society: Etiquette and Tips and Tricks of Letter Writing” Regency Reader Date Unknown, Regency Culture and Society: Etiquette and Tips and Tricks of Letter Writing – Regency Reader (regrom.com)

SuziLove “Letter Writing – Postal Information In Regency Period” Regency Fiction Writers The Beau Monde May 18, 2011, Letter Writing – Postal Information in Regency Period – Regency Fiction Writers (thebeaumonde.com)

6 responses to “The Bygone Art of Letter Writing”

  1. Alice McVeigh Avatar
    Alice McVeigh

    Lovely blog!! My late great dad collected autographs – at one point he had the signatures of EVERY USA President – from Washington to Reagan. They’re all sold now, of course, but he had lots of Presidential letters, too. He used to mourn that, with email, we’d never get to see the actual pen scratchings of Lincoln etc. It really was something to gather round and touch the letter of condolence Lincoln wrote to someone about a relative killed in the Civil War etc. I liked the crossed letter you included… anything to save money in Regency times, I guess!

    1. kimbelle1 Avatar
      kimbelle1

      Thank you, Alice! It is a passion we authors and readers share as I have yet to find someone who enjoys one but did not indulge, at least to some degree, the other, most often they are two great passions intertwined. I thank you for taking the time to read it and sharing your thoughts and see that we agree it is a loss to mourn~

  2. Neville Withington Avatar
    Neville Withington

    I did a lot of letter writing to friends I made while visiting my grandmother, friends from college etc. I found a bunch of letters that they wrote back recently. I used the telephone too, but sparingly as long-distance calls cost money. But when email and unlimited calling became common, the letter writing became a thing of the past. It was inevitable, I guess.
    When I think about letter writing before the ball point pen, I wonder at the patience that people had to use a quill and constantly dipping their pen in ink. And not just letters, Jane Austen and other writers wrote whole books without the benefit of a modern pen, a typewriter or a computer. As a left-handed person, I like the description of the different quills, but I wonder how many people were actually allowed to be left-handed. My grandmother (born in 1891) was made to be right-handed, so this may have been fairly common. If writing left-handed with a quill scares me, I can’t imagine writing with my non-dominant hand! (Of course, smearing the ink would be very likely for a left-handed person. I am certainly glad not to have been born then)

  3. kimbelle1 Avatar
    kimbelle1

    Oh, what a lovely reply, Neville! I appreciate that you, too, wrote many letters and have enjoyed the sharing of them, that you found a treasure trove of them could not but have been fun! I may have had to open a bottle of wine and read about excursions my friends and family got up to at the time when we were writing letters, more so their responses to my own (thankfully my dearest of friends always approved of my slightly gray misdeeds, perhaps even some of the medium ones one does not speak of in front of Mother 😉 ), but it is a cherished memory and the pleasure of receiving a letter that we all shared and I loved researching this blog and sharing what I learned. I thank you again for your time to read it and to write of your own memories~

  4. cindie snyder Avatar
    cindie snyder

    I usually exchange cards with a friend I have kept in touch with and she sends pretty cards.She is very crafty so they are always unique. I am not as crafty but some day I may have time to be !lol I love writing even if it is just cards. It is Nice not to email sometimes.

  5. kimbelle1 Avatar
    kimbelle1

    Thank you for sharing that you and your friend make cards to send! What a lovely thought and I am glad that you both enjoy the act of writing and keeping touch in so physical a means when most of the world is digital! Thank you for taking the time to read the post as I know we are all so busy these days, and for commenting as I so enjoy helping others find a smile and the thoughts of your crafty cards is sure to bring one~

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