The Unthinkable Question

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If Elizabeth Bennet hadn’t met and married Darcy, who would you see her with instead?

I know, I know. It’s impossible to imagine Elizabeth with anyone but Darcy! But a couple of years ago I wrote a short story in which Darcy met the leading ladies of every Austen novel, and it turned out to be a lot of fun! I thought it might be interesting to do something similar with Elizabeth and various men in Austen’s main stories. For the sake of this blog, we’ll stick to only the “good” guys of the novels- no getting together with Wickham or his ilk! And to add to the drama, I’ll rank potential pairings from least likely to most likely. You can tell me if you agree or disagree with my list. Here goes!

Frank Churchill– You weren’t even thinking of Frank Churchill, were you? I’ve often wondered why Austen isn’t harder on Churchill and his hidden engagement to Jane Fairfax. Not only does he keep their relationship secret, he flirts with other women in front of his intended! What is wrong with him? I don’t think Elizabeth would tolerate such behavior for an instant, so if she and Frank ever did get together, their engagement would be short and memorable!

Edmund Bertram – Edmund is just the sort of man Elizabeth would not care for, in my opinion. He is studious and has a strong sense of responsibility, which Elizabeth would appreciate, but he allows himself to be blinded by Mary Crawford’s superficial charm. Plus he never apologizes for the hurt he causes Fanny. Since Fanny has a patience rivaled only by that of Jane Bennet, she forgives him. Elizabeth would probably not be so charitable, so this relationship is a non-starter.

Charles Bingley –  The easygoing, compliant Bingley has good qualities, but he would probably bore Elizabeth. She needs someone who can challenge her intellect, flirt with her, and make her doubt her own assumptions all at the same time. Bingley is a good man, but he’s not the man for our Lizzie.

Edward Ferrars – Edward is honorable and possesses a good education, so Elizabeth might find this unassuming clergyman intriguing. But would he tease her, make her laugh, and be different enough from other men to catch her attention? I could be wrong, but I foresee Elizabeth and Edward being just friends.

Colonel Brandon- I know this will hurt all the Colonel Brandon fans out there, but despite his stellar qualities, I have a feeling that Elizabeth would prefer someone younger. Ouch! Sorry, colonel!

Surely you can’t be serious!

George Knightley- This man would definitely capture Elizabeth’s attention! With his good character, maturity, and willingness to speak the truth with compassion, he would clearly earn her respect. But would it turn to love? I’m not sure. The one quality missing in him is a sense of humor, but perhaps Elizabeth’s wit would draw that out. And after all, he’s proven that he can handle eccentric family members!

Frederick Wentworth- This is a tough one. Much like Knightley, Wentworth has impeccable character and a certain maturity. He’s sophisticated, having traveled the world. And we know how Elizabeth responds to a well written letter, so . . . maybe? It’s almost as hard to picture Wentworth with anyone but Anne as it is to picture Elizabeth with anyone other than Darcy!

Henry Tilney-  A clergyman with a sense of humor! And likewise blessed with good sense, good morals, and a handsome living! Besides this, Tilney is also just the right age for Elizabeth—about four or five years older. With his understated wit and occasional sarcasm, Tilney’s personality is much like Elizabeth’s own. If she didn’t meet Darcy first, Tilney might  well turn Elizabeth’s head and perhaps capture her heart.

And finally, our last candidate: Colonel (Richard, of course!) Fitzwilliam. It goes without saying that if everyone’s favorite colonel had a sufficient income, he would give Darcy a run for his money. Elizabeth is clearly attracted to him, so Darcy might have a serious rival in his less serious cousin. More than one fan fiction has paired up this couple, and I think it’s a good match.

But of course, nobody but NOBODY can ever end up with Elizabeth except Mr. Darcy!!!

So, what do you think of my list of pairings? Did any of them surprise you? Can you think of better matches for Elizabeth than the ones listed above? Let me know who you think would be the most likely to win Elizabeth over if she had never met Darcy!

17 responses to “The Unthinkable Question”

  1. RobinG Avatar

    Besides Colonel Fitzwilliam, I think Knightley would be a good match. Tilney seems a little too similar to Elizabeth. Also, I don’t think Colonel Brandon is too old. After all, I matched her with Knightley, who isn’t that much younger than Brandon. I adore Wentworth, but I don’t think Elizabeth would have been happy with a sailor.

    1. elaineowenauthor207097889 Avatar
      elaineowenauthor207097889

      I, too, have a hard time picturing Elizabeth happy with a sailor. I think once married, she would probably like to stay close to her husband. But maybe she’d join him on a ship????

  2. Glynis Avatar
    Glynis

    No! Just no! I think that if Elizabeth never met Darcy she would have ended up an old maid, teaching her nieces and nephews how to climb trees and get into trouble! I really can’t see her being happy with any of the above.

    1. elaineowenauthor207097889 Avatar
      elaineowenauthor207097889

      Or teaching her nephews and nieces to play the piano, “remarkably ill.” 🙂

  3. Amanda Kai Avatar

    Fascinating idea! Knightley certainly has some good qualities and could challenge her mind, and Tilney is lively and witty; in fact, Susan Andrews toys with the idea of Tilney and Lizzy together in one of her Camp Jane books. I also think that there might have been a crush on Colonel Fitzwilliam at one point. But ultimately, Lizzy and Darcy were destined to be together and I could never give her a happily ever after with anyone else (plus, we know what happens to characters who marry Lizzy first!)

    1. elaineowenauthor207097889 Avatar
      elaineowenauthor207097889

      I think any story that doesn’t ultimately get Darcy and Elizabeth together is doomed to be hopelessly downvoted by the readers!!! Even if it’s the best written story ever.

  4. mcmcbrayer Avatar
    mcmcbrayer

    I intended to reply that Mr. Knightley is older than Col. Brandon but now I am questioning that. No matter what, they are of similar age and I think it would be just a tad bit too old for Lizzy. Of all of the options, Captain Wentworth has the best chance, but as Cass Grafton wrote in Mr. Darcy’s Persuasion, Wentworth just can’t get over Anne and I think his loss makes him a bit too morose for Lizzy. In my opinion, Lizzy needs Darcy’s dry humor, which many of the other men lack. She would be entertained by Tilney, Bingley and Frank Churchill, but she would grow tired of their immaturity. I agree wholeheartedly with your assessment of Frank. I do not like him at all and Lizzy would not respect him after the engagement was made public.

    1. elaineowenauthor207097889 Avatar
      elaineowenauthor207097889

      Morose–that’s a good word to describe Wentworth! Maybe that’s why I have such a hard time picturing Elizabeth with him, no matter how much they seem to have in common on paper. Also, you’re right about Brandon and Knightley. It turns out that while Brandon is 35, Knightley is 37. I didn’t realize that before!

  5. Regina Jeffers Avatar

    In my “Elizabeth Bennet’s Excellent Adventure” I have Elizabeth meet Wentworth and they strike up more than a friendship until Darcy arrives, so obviously, I could see her with him.
    Knightley was my first Austen “love” when I was around 12 years old. He is intelligent and considerate. I think Elizabeth could find happiness in those quarters.

    1. elaineowenauthor207097889 Avatar
      elaineowenauthor207097889

      Knightley is the epitome of the regency gentleman, even more so than Darcy in some ways. But we still love Darcy more!

  6. Jean Stillman Avatar
    Jean Stillman

    Such tough choices, as I like all of the leading men with their own heroine, but I have always thought Elizabeth and Colonel Fitzwilliam to be beautifully matched. Color Fitzwilliam does need an income, so the trick would be in the source. Does Lizzy have an inheritance or does the good Colonel?

    1. elaineowenauthor207097889 Avatar
      elaineowenauthor207097889

      They have good chemistry, don’t they? But alas, Lizzy can only marry Darcy or Colonel Fitzwilliam, one or the other– not both.

  7. bdelleman Avatar
    bdelleman

    I married Elizabeth Bennet to Wentworth myself! I don’t think she’d work with Tilney though, they are too similar.

    1. elaineowenauthor207097889 Avatar
      elaineowenauthor207097889

      You may be right about Tilney. What story did you marry Elizabeth and Wentworth? Do you think it worked as a pairing? Did readers like it?

      1. bdelleman Avatar
        bdelleman

        It is called One Week Late. I swapped the tenants of Kellynch and Netherfield, so Darcy went to meet Anne and Elizabeth got to meet the Crofts and Wentworth. A lot of people did like it, many refused to read it at all since I was very clear that it would be non-canon pairings.

  8. cindie snyder Avatar
    cindie snyder

    Probably Captain Wentworth or Colonel Fitzwilliam would be a match although Henry Tilney might not be bad though they are a lot alike. As you said nobody but Darcy!😍

    1. elaineowenauthor207097889 Avatar
      elaineowenauthor207097889

      In the end, there can be only one. And it must be Darcy!!!

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